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Finding Shortcuts
I've commited myself to stop smoking, I've commited myself to never fail a subject, I've commited myself to carry out all my projects, I've commited myself to become crazier everyday and forget what had hurt me deep inside. Of course I haven't achieved all these commitments, I still smoke, yet I haven't failed a subject I havent learned as much as I wanted it for not failing in life. I try as much as possible to fulfill my own expectations, sometimes I can achieve them, sometimes they remain in the Un-done shelf ! I am becoming crazier everyday as a matter of fact, but when I talk about crazyness I always adress to the lose of the self a propos of the comunal joy ! To be crazy is to understand the world in a different but sharing way !
When I was child I always looked to the sky to find answers, as I start growing up I start listening to people's opinion to find an answer, I've realize that answers are always inside us, in our heart but to be seen these ones go up to the sky and shine in front of our eyes as little sparking stars .
Now, I need to find a shortcut from problems, lazyness, careless people and behatred, I need to find a shortcut to tell myself how much people need other people to understand what their hearts are craving for, I need to find a shortcut to tell people that war is not the answer to the problem, is a problem with no answers. I do need to find a better way to show them how much blood has been floating down to make salty rivers. Because I've found that regardless how many War History, War Museums, War's aside effect, etc, we have the less we understand, the less we care, i need to find a shortcut cause to go for the long way only make us blinder of our reality, i need to find it now, for the sake of ourselves. We need to find a better way, definitely this is a must. I know that while I was writing people die in armed figths, while yu are reading people are dying at the hands of a few brainless people. Help me to find a shortcut, I know I've havent reached my personal goals, but I think to help globaly helps me personally !
thank you for making yourself a time to read this, If you find a shortcut Let me knowm and let the world know it !
Teresa!
Comentarios sobre Finding Shortcuts
Tera, you are right. Between each person there is a big chasm of misunderstanding. We don't understand each other very well. I think this is because people usually cover themselves with a shell. They want other people to think that they are awesome, and cool. They rarely let other people know how weak and how pathetic they are, simply because they are afraid of judgement, because they think that if other people know about their weaknesses, they will exploit them. In most relationship/friendship, people are not sincere enough to open up because they are scared.
I think in order to understand other people, we need to understand overselves first; both our weaknesses and strengths, and we must be true to ourselves. By doing so, we will be able to withstand other people's judgement, and we will be able to avoid judging other people too. People will open up to you, if you don't judge them. Actually, I just realized how people have been desperately in need of such kind of friend who can understand without judging.
I still don't know if there is such an honest, open, sincere, genuine, non-manapulative, non-domineering friendship/relationship, where there is mutual respect and trust. I don't know how many of us are lucky enough to have such kind of friendship.
As far as I know, to expect too much from other people and too dependent on other people can ruin the friendship, because that kind of friendship will degrade into master-slave relationship. We should be able to stay alone when necessary although we care for our friends, because friendship is more than hanging out together and having fun. Sometimes, we find ourselves in a diffcult situation that we have to choose between being true to ourselves and being true to others. It is really a painful situation; however painful it is, be true to yourself. You won't regret it.
The shortest way to reach people's heart is simple, I guess. Be true to yourself; don't judge people;